The other day in a meeting I told a guy that he was unable to receive feedback. The conversation went like this:
Me – You just got feedback and instead of taking it in you are more worried to prove that you understood it and act on it to look good. I have the impression that you can’t listen…
Him –abruptly interrupting- No, what happens is that...
Me- interrupting as well- See…
He realized what happened but he didn’t give it any importance. How about that!?!?! That guy is as screwed as I am but continues being so happy in lala land making non-stop empty contributions, stupid jokes and meaningless questions to show as all how smart he is. He get’s on my nerves. F@&# that guy and the “ignorance is bliss” expression!!
Umm, what? Don’t tell me you are thinking that that’s not a very spiritual approach and that I should take all these as a present to look at what he is triggering on me? Screw that too! I’ve been too tired of all this crap lately!
To my loyal reader friends, I hope from this post you take exactly what not to do. Regarding me, I can only hope that this will be the “break down before the breakthrough”.